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10 Surprising Secrets for Success

11th Dec 12 12:00 am

by Shed Simove author of ‘Success Or Your Money Back’…

Secret 1 – Be Like Frankenstein

As I’m sure you know, Frankenstein was the fictional scientist who breathed life into his famous monster. Like him, it’s absolutely essential that you give a proper birth to every good idea you have. Each idea you think up is like a delicate newborn baby. And unless you give it two things, it can easily die. It needs: food and armour. The most important meal you can give an idea you have is to immediately write it down or make a note of it. This is vital to ensure your idea doesn’t die straight away. How often have you thought of a fantastic idea, only to forget it a few hours later or the next day? We’ve all done it. And those ideas hardly ever return. And once it’s recorded, the best way to give your idea protection is to create a prototype or visualisation. By turning the ideas you’ve written down into some kind of initial mock-up, rough sketch or model, this will immediately give your idea a massive boost in power and give it the best chance of living a fruitful life.

Secret 2 – Why You’ll Soon Find Other People’s Sweat Wildly Attractive

Thomas Edison famously said ‘Genius is one percent inspiration and ninety-nine percent perspiration.’ The good news is that it doesn’t have to be your perspiration. In fact, you should use as little of your perspiration as possible – by finding experts to help you. This will then free you up to have even more ‘inspiration’ and embark upon lots more successful ventures. People who are more talented than you in a certain area will stay with you if: a) you treat them well (both on a human level and also in a business way); and b) you keep making good decisions that ultimately lead them to being fulfilled, recognised and rewarded. It’s often said success is often about ‘who you know’. Now, even though this might be accurate on some occasions, ‘not knowing’ the right people should never be used as a reason not to start something. This is simply yet another excuse for not trying to make an idea come to life.

Secret 3 – Treat Your Life Like An Experiment

One neat way to lessen the fear of failure (which we all have) and fool your brain into trying new things – is to think of your life as an ‘experiment’. It’s a powerful trick because it immediately reframes everything you do, because: experiments never ‘fail’. When a scientist sets up an experiment, they follow the strict structure of ‘hypothesis, method, results and conclusion’. The important point to note is that, no matter what happens during the experiment, as long as something does happen, then the experiment is deemed to be a success – simply because it gets results, whether those results confirm the scientist’s original belief or throw up new possibilities and avenues to conduct another experiment. And this ethos can beautifully apply to our lives too, because as long as you’re getting results, then that’s a sign you’re making things happen and learning how to conduct your next experiment. And if the results aren’t exactly what you expect, you can always try another experiment, tweaking your method to see if you get the results you’re hoping for. What’s more, the fantastic fact about using ‘experimentation’ in your life is that when you try things, sometimes you get an even better result than you hoped for in the first place.

Secret 4 – Knowledge Is Dead

Hold the front page because it’s time for ‘knowledge’ to move over. In this amazing time we live in, knowledge is no longer ‘power’. In fact, due to the phenomenal presence of the internet, these days, knowledge is very easy to find. Knowledge is, in fact, cheap. And, so now, there’s a new guy in town – creativity. And that’s where the real power currently lies. Due to the internet delivering us so much information at our keyboard-tapping fingertips, knowledge is no longer difficult to come by – therefore it’s not simply enough to know something if you want a competitive edge. Now, what’s way more valuable is how you make connections between existing knowledge in order to create something new – and also, how you shout about your creations so that people engage with them. There’s another curious effect that the internet has on the dynamic of innovation. When a new idea is launched, because of the way information is now spread so easily, everyone else can instantly see that idea. Therefore, this means it’s even more vital for anyone wanting to have any edge at all to constantly keep new ideas coming at a regular and fast pace, because it’s likely that any ‘old’ ideas will be copied, tweaked or refined very soon after they’re released. Knowledge is dead. Long live creativity.

Secret 5 – The 33% Rule

When you’re planning to send something out into the world that you’ve recently worked on (and pretty much all of us are anxious about doing so), then the 33% rule may help reassure you: roughly 33% of people will like what you do, roughly 33% of people will dislike what you do, and roughly 33% of people won’t care about what you do. No matter what you produce, be it the Mona Lisa, Beethoven’s Fifth, a Michelin-starred meal, the Sistine Chapel… not every single person on the planet will ever agree that what you’ve done is amazing. This is actually great news and very empowering, because once you realise that there’s no absolute standard for anything that’s been created by a human, it frees you up to go with your best judgment whilst you’re creating and to look forward to discovering who likes your creationn, and if so, how many people will actually engage with it.

Secret 6 – ‘F.O.C. It!’

Here’s a useful tool to break down a task – or indeed your whole life – so that you can ensure you’ll have the best chance of success. It consists of three points: FOCUS, OPPORTUNITIES and CHOICES. ‘Focus’ is what you choose to spend your time and thoughts on each day. You can ask yourself: ‘What do I currently think about the most?’ and if that gives you an answer relating to something you like, it’s a good idea to move towards it. ‘Opportunities’ are everywhere and you must learn to recognise them. And when you’re fortunate enough to be given an opportunity, you must go all out to make it count and ensure you perform to your best ability. Then, after you’ve performed well in that opportunity, more opportunities just like it will follow. CHOICES are what happen when you land (or create) more than one opportunity. Then, you’ll be in the fabulous position of being able to choose which opportunities to take. The luxury of ‘choice’ is something to be treasured and when an opportunity does arise, you should give it considerable thought, because opportunities are your chance to create even more exciting opportunities and ultimately eventually reach the long-term goals you’re shooting for. So now you can use the concept of ‘F.O.C. It’ – to mould your life and the lives of others – and, in fact, you can say to anyone you meet to: ‘GO F.O.C. YOURSELF!’

Secret 7 – The Drunk Life

Imagine what you’d be like if you made all your life decisions as if you were drunk. We all know that imbibing alcohol makes most people much more fearless, impulsive and spontaneous. And in general life, those traits are the same ones that can often lead to exciting adventures happening and new achievements being reached. Now, I’m not for a moment suggesting you should go to your local bar and start buying up the entire inventory so that you can suddenly start being incredibly fearless and wildly successful. When a person is drunk, their judgment can often get impaired too much and there are the obvious health risks too, of course. It’s not a good idea to go through life ‘numb’ or totally disconnected from reality, but it’s still a very helpful mental exercise to consider
what demons may be limiting you at any point in your life and to ask yourself this question when you’re deciding whether to embark on something new: ‘What would I do if I was drunk right now? This makes you focus on whether you, or your demons, are in control – and whether those demons are making you just a little bit too inhibited, or stopping you from doing something that you should just simply have a go at making happen. So, maybe if you were to start to live life like you’re drunk, but without the actual drinking, incredible adventures and even more success – might follow. Perhaps we all just need a bit more bottle…

Secret 8 – The Only Thing Men Do Better Than Women

There’s a fine art that’s very helpful for getting anything you desire and it’s something men seem to do more than women. And that’s probably because it’s a slightly vulgar behaviour! The particular trait I’m talking about is…the fine art of self-promotion. In order to succeed in whatever you want to do, it’s often vital that you sell yourself and maximise the potential you have, not only so that people can be aware of what you’re doing (and either engage with it or pay for it), but also so that you can persuade others who can help you on your path to success to team up with you.

Because all adults are essentially bluffing their way through life and business, with a little bit of preparation and some fake confidence, you can too. So, it’s useful to learn how to push yourself forwards as a ‘commodity’ or ‘product’. Self promotion shouldn’t be about ‘arrogance’, it’s about focusing on what you do well and then communicating that you have these skills to others – and using those skills with 150% conviction…

Secret 9 – How To Find Dozens Of The Experts In One Place

When I want to find someone brilliant to work with, I visit a trade fair. There you’ll find tons of brilliant people all under one roof who all have expertise in an area you’re interested in. Once there, make it your goal to get business cards that allows you to contact companies at a later date. Then, around two weeks after the trade fair (when the company will have dealt with a lot of the orders and meetings arising from the fair), email or call them and explain where you met. By mentioning you crossed paths at the recent trade fair, it marks you out as being a little more serious about their area of expertise, an insider almost, and not just another random cold call. Then, you can enquire whether they ever work with partners – and if they do – and are interested in meeting you, arrange a date to visit them at their premises (you can tell a lot about a company from their offices and team). Once there, you can then pitch your ideas to them, and see if they’ll partner with you. Your ideas, coupled with the experience and talents of passionate experts can make anything happen.

Secret 10 – Failing Upwards

Conventional wisdom says that mistakes are ‘bad’ and should be avoided at all cost. Well, that stops now. Because both you and I should throw open the windows and proclaim: ‘Mistakes are great!’. Failing is something to strive for – and ideally, we must all learn to want to fail. I’d like to try and plant a seed in your mind so that you’ll begin to actively chase the process of making mistakes, because only then will you know you’re on the road to success. Of course, if you’re a heart surgeon, this wisdom has a slightly different resonance – I’m not advocating you aim to make lots of mistakes in your day-to-day work (we don’t want anyone to die now, do we!) – but the principle still stands. Even the pioneers of heart surgery must have tried surgery on animal hearts (and even some live, human hearts) before they got it exactly right. The important fact to remember is that no progress is made unless new ideas are tried – and mistakes are made.

BONUS SECRET – ‘Negnets’ And How To Avoid Them

There are certain people you should avoid when you’re beginning to create something new. I call them ‘Negnets’. These people are like magnets for negative energy, hence ‘negative magnets’ or ‘Negnets’ for short. We all know chracters like this, who seem to both collect and also emanate, negative energy – and it’s powerfully sticky. It can severely hamper your progress, or sometimes, even stop you from reaching your goal. A Negnet is the sort of person who might say ‘That’s an awful idea’ or ‘That’ll never work’. So, when you’re trying to get an idea off the ground, identify any Negnets in your life, and no matter how close you are to them, try to avoid talking to these Negnets about your ideas or goals, especially right at the start when the idea is just a concept in your head. At this point, your idea is way, way too fragile and you can’t risk it being shattered by some flippant remark, disapproving look or discouraging comment.


Shed’s new book, ‘Success Or Your Money Back’ is out now, published by Hay House. Find out more about Shed at www.ShedSimove.com and add him on Twitter and LinkedIn.

About The Author

Sheridan ‘Shed’ Simove is a modern-day entrepreneurial marvel. To date, he’s built a global novelty gift empire (including products such as the ‘Sergeant Pepper Mill’, ‘The Sound Machine’ and the ‘Control-A-Man’ and ‘Control-A-Woman’ remote controls), been a renowned TV Producer (‘Big Brother’, ‘Big Breakfast’, ‘Space Cadets’), is the, bestselling author of Presents Money Can’t Buy and Ideas Man, and a corporate speaker on success, creativity and innovation, among other achievements.

Some of Shed’s ideas include a range of novelty products, which have sold over a million units worldwide, a groundbreaking documentary that involved him going undercover as a sixteen-year-old schoolboy (when he was thirty) and the launch of his own currency – the ‘EGO’. He also made publishing history by becoming the first person ever to get a totally blank book into the top fifty of Amazon’s bestseller chart, when he published What Every Man Thinks About Apart From Sex – a book with two hundred completely blank pages. It has since been translated around the world.

Shed’s ability to create new ideas matched with his skill to make them happen mean that his range and rate of success is huge.


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